What a joy that is to take comfort in the fact that there is someone out there that when the need to share our feelings with someone, they will be there. We as humans like to interact and share. Good, bad, inane you name it we want to tell someone about it. We like talking about ourselves. There is a very small population out there that never wants to talk about themselves at least a little bit. So we need someone to hear what we have to say.
So how do we find this person? It seems there may be one or two people that would be constant in your life as a way to release that need to be heard. However you have different needs in different times in your life. The people you need will be laid in your path the challenge for you is to see that person in front of you in order to take advantage of the honest and true listener that is there for you using.
The way to see that person is different for everyone, but the first step is knowing that you need a listener and then you have to take a look around and determine who are you drawn to or even someone who seems to have a way with situations you know you need growth in.
The simple fact is that you are in charge of you and your destiny. If you don't take control of what you can control and let go of the things that you can not control you will miss that person that is out there waiting for the opportunity to hear you and then if you are really lucky give you honest sage advice that is actually applicable to your situation and may actually help you. How lucky you are to have taken notice and then taken as much advantage of it as you can.
You can only become a better person by finding those people in your life that offer you an opportunity to be heard and then make yourself a better you for all the world see and enjoy.
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